Aug 20, 2020
For the third of this month’s Listener Favorite episodes, I present Under Covers “Nadia”
These Under Covers episodes came from a desire to share with women all sorts of amazing and true stories of women of all ages, economic, social and religious backgrounds. What I started to realize is that even though we’re all so different, in many ways we are the same.
If you want to take a deep dive into the first ten Under Covers episodes, check out this piece all about all of the conversations on Medium.com.
This episode clearly hit a chord with my listeners as it is the third most popular episode of all time. I was completely blown away by this woman’s confidence and how she became the total boss of her sex life while she was still a teenager. We can all learn a lot from her.
If you’d like to be interviewed Under Covers, please email me today and we can set it up. Also, don’t forget, all 5-star reviews left this month will receive their very own CUSTOM JINGLE performed by me on the show!!! Come on! Leave me some love and I will sing you a personalized jingle. You can’t put a price on awesome!
Alright friends, sit back and enjoy my third most popular episode OF ALL TIME, Under Covers “Nadia”
NADIA
(That’s not her real name).
Just like the previous Under Covers conversations, there’s a lot I could share with you about Nadia in advance, but the truth is, I knew absolutely nothing about her when I started this interview. I didn’t know her age, her job, her socioeconomic status, her religious background, where she lived, nothing. And that was 100% deliberate because these are bits of information we all use to subtly judge and categorize each other in advance. I wanted all of that off the table because going into an interview blind is a great way for me to experience these conversations exactly like you will.
I never knew what her answers were going to be.
This is all about hearing other women’s stories with no bias whatsoever, and realizing that there may be aspects of another woman’s vastly different life that actually resonates with your own. Suddenly, you’re not so alone anymore. Suddenly things make a little more sense. Maybe by hearing these stories, you can move forward with the knowledge that we’re all in this together and the best way for all of us to start healing is to start sharing our differences with each other.
With no judgment.
So, I will keep this brief.
All you need to know in advance is that Nadia is 31, married and polyamorous.
That’s where all similarities end…or begin.
MEMORABLE QUOTES
“There was a decade of my life where I was like, I’m only going to have sex with you if you excite me tremendously. So that was like a lot of really great sex for a while.”
“I’ve always felt constrained by the rules of monogamy.”
“The thing with rules is that whenever a rule is set, people want to break it.”
“I’m always loving multiple people. That’s a thing that is very real for me.”
“I think a lot of people often don’t understand that this kind of arrangement actually requires way more trust. Way more communication.”
“Most marriages do end and I’m much more hopeful for the longevity of my partnership now that we are open and talking about these things.”
Be sure to check out all of my super fun writing on Medium.com. It’s exactly like the podcast only completely different.
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